The Magic of Beauty – a Quest Into Why Many are Still Single!

November 9th, 2009 |

Author:

Lara Lee asked:

Living amongst thousands and thousands of people, why do we sometimes have a hard time finding love? Why are we still single? Answer to these questions is: We are single because all we look for in a person is their BEAUTY. If it’s not the face then it’s the body, if it’s not the body, it’s the legs. Something about that person has to be beautiful for us to go ahead and want to make them ours.

Philosophers, poets have raved about beauty, and the life which comes with it. But let us now deconstruct this phenomena and see how it makes us be with someone who can truly be our “Soul mate”

The first time we run into someone somewhere in the market, the only reason we said hi to them or asked for their number was because they were beautiful? But what if they had a very dirty past, what if they thought you were ugly? What if they he or she were not even the type who would keep you happy?

But that you will find out later on, the first days or the beginning of the relationship you are just happy because you found someone who is “hot”, “cute”, “sexy”, “sex bomb”, “handsome” “dashing” “muscular”

And what not. Why don’t we ever talk about how good their heart was, why don’t we look for people who are involved in good works. Why don’t we look for people who are always trying to help others. The ones that give you a polite smile, the ones which might hold the door for you.

We ignore the most beautiful people just because we can not see the beauty which lies within.

You never know what and who can make you happy. So if you thought or still think that beauty will make you happy, you might be mistaken. The real beauty is when you wake up next to someone who loves you and respects you for who you are.

So give your self a chance and look for the real beauty. I am sure it is around you.